My heart sunk when a friend told me her boyfriend broke up with her. Of the many
excuses and reasons the guy attribute it to their long distance
relationship and their different love language.
What love language?
Love in itself is already complex and I have to know this love language?
Is that Italian, German, Chinese or French?
Here are the 5 love languages:
- Words of Affirmation
– expressing
yourself through words:
“you look
good on that dress”
- Quality Time
– you are physical
present, spends time & do things together
Watching movie
together & talking about the movie over dinner or coffee
- Receiving Gifts
- giving her
something of value or use to her makes her think you are thinking of her
Flowers on
Valentine’s Day
- Acts of Service
- action
speaks louder than words, so you do things for each other or do it together
Doing errands
together
- Physical Touch
- hugging,
kissing, holding hands
Give him
or her a big hug after a day’s work.
Knowing each other’s love language
will spare you of unnecessary arguments or frustration.
Take this quiz to identify your love language
and know your loved ones'.
This will also help build and strengthen your relationship with your family,
kids and friends.
I have always loved that we do some things together. Only some cause I also
want to give him his own me time and besides there will always be things he
wants that you don’t or you want that he doesn’t.
The quiz
did affirm my love language of “acts
of service & quality time”
I also asked him to take the quiz and as predicted his love language is
quality time. It is also an affirmation for me that I made the right choice.
But mind you, we still enjoy giving gifts & surprises to each other. I
describe it as cherry on top.
So what is your love
language? Find out here.
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